![]() ![]() ![]() Because that’s how I take her with me when I pursue this mission. I have to believe that she is doing that at all times. And she stands with me and she guides me through it. Our relationship is based upon memories that we had, and it’s based upon memories or new events that will exist because of what happened to her. It still is, but I think of my relationship with Jaime now as not one of new memories, not one of doing the things we planned to do, not walking her down the aisle. But in the case of Jaime, I’ll always be responding to what happened on Feb. I’ve already told him I’m going to live to 100 so I can continue to do that even when he’s 50 and 60. In the case with my son, that will be ongoing. I’m still a dad, who will spend the rest of his life reacting to what happens to his two kids. ![]() When I stopped thinking of Jaime in the past tense, I started thinking of my relationship with Jaime as just having changed. ![]()
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